Great at naps but bedtime is a STRUGGLE
My 4 month old has already gone through his regression (it was rough) and we are doing great with falling asleep on his own for naps (put down drowsy but awake). But come night time he fights going to sleep so bad. We have to go in and calm him multiple times, pat him and help him sooth to fall asleep, just to have him wake and cry again in 2 minutes. This happens over and over at least 5 times most nights. We have a great bedtime routine, bottle bath book and then bed. He is always tired when we put him down, but not over tired as far as I can tell.
He also wakes every 2-3 hours at night to feed. I don't know if this is really for the calories or more because he can't self soothe when he transitions from sleep cycles. I assume the later.
What can I do to have the same success at night as we do with naps?